Disclaimer: I do not pretend to be a political expert and certainly can’t predict how Clinton would have fared as president, had she won the US election 2016. This article is not about Clinton’s eligibility for the role of President. It’s about her opponent’s eligibility. Maybe the millions who voted for Trump know something that those of us who are shocked at the US election result don’t. Maybe I’m a bleeding heart Liberal. What I do know is that I have some sense of a moral compass and an ability to distinguish right from just downright wrong. So the following is my view of the situation. Not as a political pundit. Not as a grandstander who loves the sound of her own voice. But as a mother and a global citizen. Some of the most intelligent, cultured, rational, kind, open-minded people I know are American. It takes all sorts, especially in a country as vast as the USA. I realise this. Nevertheless, the following is how I feel. (Who knows? I might even break an Absolutely Prabulous rule and use the f-bomb.)
I set foot on American soil for the first time aged 21, with a huge rucksack on my back and an ecstatic smile on my face.
I will never forget almost falling out of the airport shuttle bus with excitement upon my first sighting of the Empire State Building. My heart just leapt. New York, one of the symbols of the American Dream, the city of a thousand TV series and films…was finally in front of me. I spent two months working on a summer camp near Great Barrington, MA, before Greyhounding it around the States, East to West back to East coast; the best memories.
I returned to the UK two stone heavier with a ridiculous (thankfully shortlived) American drawl and an addiction to Mexican food and American pancakes.
A love affair with the USA had begun; I really did think it was the best at everything. There were frustrations too such as the lack of wordliness of most Americans I met and the belief that their country was the centre of the universe. But I was young and forgiving (naive?). The years rolled by. Many dreams of living there, several wonderful holidays to the States – including an incredible honeymoon – later, my husband and I applied to move stateside with our young family. We were denied the visa twice; despite having a very strong application and an excellent sponsor. I cannot deny, that for various reasons, I was actually relieved. I had decided, for so many reasons (how long have you got?) that it just isn’t a country where I would feel comfortable raising my children. The love affair had ended. I take no pleasure in saying that and hope with all my heart that my friends Stateside are not offended.
Today, the day on which the US election 2016 results were announced, I walked into my neighbourhood café, stared open-mouthed at the TV screen and genuinely considered asking the barista to slip some whiskey in my cappuccino to take the edge off my horror.
Note, I hate whiskey. The café was packed; the staff immobile watching the news aghast. My friend Marilyn (alias) arrived to join me for a quick coffee. The first thing she said was “I thought of you as soon as I heard the result and I thought Prabs must be so happy they never got the visa to move to the States.” (Well I think the very first thing she said to me was Holy F**k). And yes, I am thanking my lucky stars and stripes (see what I did there?) we didn’t move. The ensuing conversation consisted mainly of WTF and several more various expletives. “This is Brexit supersized”, she said. Well it’s the USA. Everything is supersized. [Ponders whether to elaborate on this…]
We finished coffee, I headed off to run household errands and then a while later, sat down to try to write something about this fateful day, the day the world became even more insane.
Which brings me to now. Frankly I’m staring at my screen paralysed, unable to process what has happened. The line ‘I don’t know how to explain this to my kids’ was never more true. When your 12 year-old daughter asks “But Mummy why would women vote for a person who has zero respect for females or anyone?”…actually I can’t finish that sentence.
I wanted to entitle this piece A Letter to America, You are Still the Biggest and the Best.
But the American dream and horror film analogy kept whirring round in my head. But if I did write a letter to those in America who voted for Donald Trump, I guess this would be it:
So America you have spoken. The nation that has forever believed itself to be the biggest and the best, showing the rest of the world, the land of dreams where anything is possible…you have put a maniac with no moral code in the White House (well at least you proved that anything is in fact possible). Donald Twunt has made it to the Oval Office. A classless belligerent liar is replacing the famous stars and stripes with ignorance, chauvinism, hatred and division etc. You have shown that you value the nonsensical promises and locker-room utterings of a man who is unable to construct a coherent sentence.
In voting to Make America ‘great again’, you have actually made America an utter laughing stock. Except what has happened is no laughing matter; it is in fact utterly terrifying, an example of totally incomprehensible democracy. More American Horror Story than American Dream.
You, the country that filled us with hope in electing its first black president, have done an absolute u-turn and now handed the most important job on the planet to an orange-faced racist, homophobic, tax-avoiding sexual predator. I can’t help thinking of the TV series title. I guess Orange is the New Black now… This isn’t entertainment, though. This shit just got real.
Let’s not pretend that the gender of the loser was not a very real issue here. You see America, it’s no longer a mere glass ceiling. It’s a gigantic concrete one, painted an ominous black for all the world to see.
You have declared to the world that it is perfectly acceptable to have someone with the intelligence and sensitivity of a spoon run your country as long as they are not a woman. It would seem a woman, on whom the only ‘dirt’ that could be found was an email scandal that turned out to be no scandal, is not to be trusted…whilst it is clear that a man, with an exhausting record of blacklistable offences, is the perfect contender for President of the United States of America.
You have decided it is safe to give the enormous responsibility of the role of Commander in Chief to an unpredictable toddler who masquerades as an adult. Just think about that America. A man who is incapable of controlling his words and behaviour – whether it’s his urge to grab a woman by the vagina or insult a terminally ill supporter – will have his finger on the button! Not a woman’s blouse button…well alright there’ll be plenty of that because he thinks that the sexual harassment of women is a sport and a man’s birthright…but no I mean THE BIG RED BUTTON.
You are comfortable having the USA represented on the entire world stage by a narcissistic showboater who can’t even behave himself in front of just a few hundred people and makes the most hair-raisingly inappropriate comments.
You have shown to your own flesh and blood that you place zero value on the existence or future of females or else why would you have put a contempt-filled misogynist, guilty of repeated sexual assault, in such a position of power? Female Trumpettes…you stagger me!
You have chosen to believe that a self-aggrandising bully has your best interests at heart. You have entrusted the overseeing of financial policies for the restoration of your retirement pensions and the rehabilitation of the American dollar to a man who has boasted about tax evasion, lost a billion dollars and is notorious for shafting his own employees.
You apparently see no wrong in putting at the same table as Heads of State, a raging racist. Oh the mental image America! Never mind Trump holding discourse with Presidents and Prime Ministers in the Eastern or Arab world. He’s only got to go north of the border: how long do you give it before he insults the Canadian Minister of Defence?!
You have found it in yourselves to invest a power hungry devil with the authority to nominate the Supreme Court members. The Supreme Court people! The most powerful entity that makes THE most important decisions that affect you, your partner, brother, sister, mother, father, children (God help us all YOUR CHILDREN!), your neighbour, your friend. If that isn’t a horror story right there, I don’t know what is.
I understand that people are sick of the political elite and feel that the establishment has ignored them – but the idea that a billionaire, non-tax payer like Donald Trump is their anti-establishment champion is what baffles me. He’s not the answer, he’s part of that same problem. Jeff Gardiner, Author
So dear America. You really have gone from embodying the American dream to a total nightmarish horror story.
Whilst I be may be sighing an enormous sigh of relief over you denying us that visa, I can’t deny that you still are the biggest and the best. Bravo. You elected the biggest imbecile and when you fuck up, you do it better than everyone.
Oh look, there’s the f-bomb.
I could feel the tension rising in you (& me!) as I read this! Really really good piece and I agree with everything you have written. I’m still aghast almost a week later. #dreamteam
Aw thanks lovely and yes I don’t think the shock will ever leave me. What happened to humanity?!
You’ve said it all! And you’ve said it brilliantly. It beggars belief. I think I’m still in denial. I don’t think I can allow my brain to process it at all! #DreamTeam
I know 🙁
I could not agree with this more…I have been in a state of shock since it happened. What has scared me more though is the amount of Trump supporters and their torrent of abuse that they are spouting all over social media. And the racist attacks have already begun in America, just like after Brexit. Scary, scary times…we all need to stick together and stamp out the racism and bigotry where we see it…my latest blog post is all about this! #DreamTeam
I literally don’t understand the world we live in at all. Thanks for reading.
Great post, I really didn’t think he’d get in (because I had faith in the American voters) but when you look at the reasons people are voting and whats going on in that country you can see how its come to this. They had two very different candidates representing two very different aspects of society – neither of them of being great options in my opinion and as you say – we can’t predict what Clinton would have been like. But ’tis what it is and hopefully he’ll tone it down and his administration will bring him into check next year #stayclassymama
Oh man. As an American, I wish I didn’t agree with you – but I do. My first thought when I heard the results was “I’m glad I never got my daughter US citizenship”. My husband and I live in the UK but always intended to make her a dual citizen – those plans are now on hold. Brexit was bad enough, but now America has truly out-Brexited Britain. #stayclassymama
What the intercourse has happened in the USA? My 7 year old daughter was genuinely appalled at the result. Big up to Hillary for telling all girls to follow their ambitions in her speech. Another v brilliant post Prabs x
Ah thanks my dear. Your first line made me laugh.
I saw it coming, in a Brexit-anything-can-happen-and-it-probably-will kind of way, but I’m still deeply shocked. The conversation with my four year old summed it up perfectly:
“Mummy, is this a film you’re watching?”
“No honey, it’s the news. It’s real life. It just seems like a film”
One that’s too scary to watch…
Thanks for sharing with #coolmumclub xx
Oh gosh bless her. If only…a film…well it is like I said An American Horror Story.
I am still reeling from this and I still feel sick about it. You have captured all the feelings that I haven’t been able to articulate due to me spending the past two days shouting “what the actual f*ck” #Coolmumclub
lol the last bit, I know! Thanks for reading love x
Shock doesn’t cover the emotions. My girls have read and heard heaps so, like your daughter, their questioning of how such a man could be president is too upsetting to answer. I think that has been the hardest thing to accept – actually I’m not accepting – is women the world over just don’t understand. Oh how I’d love to speak to a female who voted for him – are there actually any out there? I’d be shocked! So much to unfold with this drama yet and it;s not going to be pretty #CoolMumClub
Loads voted for him Helen. It’s crazy.
Well I contemplated writing something about how horrified I was by it all but figured there would be someone out there who could say it better than me and here you are! Well said! F**king well said! What was America thinking? I think the fact that President Putin was the first to come out and congratulate Donald Twunt (genius by the way!) on his win says everything everyone needs to know! At least the writers for American Horror Story have their next season written for them! Also did you see that The Simpsons ran an Episode 16 years ago about Trump being president?
Ha ha OMG did they? The Simpson thing I mean. Blimey…and how people must have laughed at the time. Who’s laughing now? Thanks for reading!
Great post and basically encompasses everything I think about this absolute nightmare. Although I predicted it, I’m still in shock he’s basically the most powerful man in the world come his inauguration in January. I genuinely thought I’d been transported back in time to c.1952 yesterday morning. #stayclassy